大学舍友(大学舍友关系不好正常吗) -pg电子试玩入口

2023-09-09 11:33:18




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you may have grown up living with lots of siblings, or this may be your first time sharing your living space with someone else. while having a roommate inevitably has its challenges, it can also be a great part of your college experience.


follow these ten tips to make sure you and your roommate keep things pleasant and supportive throughout the year (or even years!).


1. be clear about your expectations from the beginning


do you know in advance that you hate it when someone hits the snooze button1 fifteen times every morning? that you’re a neat freak? that you need ten minutes to yourself before talking to anyone after you wake up? let your roommate know as soon as you can about your little quirks and preferences. it’s not fair to expect him or her to pick up on2 them right away, and communicating what you need is one of the best ways to eliminate problems before they become problems.


[1] snooze button 闹钟上的延时按钮,按下此按钮闹铃声停止,但短时间内会再次响起,用于反复提醒定闹铃人起床。[2] pick up on注意到(不容易注意的事情)。

2. address problems when they’re little

2. 及时化解小矛盾

is your roommate always forgetting her stuff for the shower, and taking yours? are your clothes being bor- rowed faster than you can wash them? addressing things that bug you while they’re still little can help your roommate be aware of something she may not otherwise know. and addressing little things is much easier than addressing them after they’ve become big.同寝的姑娘洗澡时是不是经常忘记带洗浴用品,拿你的来用?才洗好的衣服,是不是马上又会被一件接一件地借走?烦心之事虽小,也要及时提醒,不然她可能还浑然不觉。小事说开了很容易化解,积怨成仇就不好办了。

3. respect your roommate’s stuff

3. 他人物品别乱动

this may seem simple, but it’s probably one of the biggest reasons why roommates experience conflict. don’t think he’ll mind if you borrow his cleats for a quick soccer game3? for all you know, you just stepped over an uncrossable line. don’t borrow, use, or take anything without getting permission first.


[3] quick soccer game 一种小型足球比赛, 参加人数较正规比赛少(如每队五人)。

4. be mindful of who you bring into your room – and how often

4. 来客不可将人扰

you may love having your study group into your room. but your roommate may not. be mindful of how often you bring people over. if your roommate studies best in the quiet, and you study best in a group, can you alternate who hits4 the library and who gets the room?


[4] hit 去(某地)。

5. lock the door and windows

5. 寝室门窗要锁好

this may seem like it has nothing to do with roommate relationships, but how would you feel if your roommate’s laptop got stolen during the ten seconds it took you to run down thehall5? or vice versa? locking your door and windows is a critical part of keeping safe on campus.


[5] hall 此处同 hallway,走廊、过道。

6. be friendly, without expecting to be best friends

6. 室友无须变挚友

don’t go into6 your roommate relationship thinking that you are going to be best friends for the time you’re at school. it may happen, but expecting it sets both of you up for7 trouble. you should be friendly with your roommate but also make sure you have your own social circles.


[6] go into 此处指(将时间、精力)用在,用于(某事)。[7] set somebody up for 把某人置于某种境地。

7. be open to new things

7. 乐于接受新事物

your roommate may be from someplace you’ve never heard of. they may have a religion or lifestyle that is completely different from your own. be open to new ideas and experiences, especially as it relates to what your roommate brings into your life. that’s why you went to college in the first place, right?!也许你的室友从一个你闻所未闻的地方而来,你们的..信仰和生活方式可能完全不同。要以开放的心态看待新观念、尝试新事物,当这些是因你的室友而接触到的时候,尤应如此。这不正是你上大学的初衷吗?

8. stay open to change

8. 勇于改变应万变

you should expect to learn and grow and change during your time at school. and the same should happen to your roommate, if all goes well. as the semester progresses, realize things will change for both of you. be comfortable addressing things that unexpectedly come up, setting new rules, and being flexible to your changing environment.大学期间,你要自我学习、 自我成长、自我改变。如果一切顺利的话,你的室友也应如此。要明白,随着学期向前推进,大家都会有所改变。意料之外的事时有发生,要从容应对。要定新规,随机应变。

9. address problems when they’re big, too

9. 矛盾升级得处理

you may not have been totally honest8 with tip #2, or you may suddenly find yourself with a roommate who goes wild9 after being shy and quiet the first two months. either way, if something gets to be a big problem quickly, deal with it as soon as you can.


[8] honest 如实的,不作假的。[9] be/go wild 感情强烈的(尤指生气、激动或高兴)。

10. if nothing else, follow the golden rule

10. 黄金法则要记牢

treat your roommate like you’d like to be treated. no matter what your relationship is at the end of the year, you can take comfort knowing you acted like an adult and treated your roommate with respect.你希望别人怎么对待你,你就怎么对待别人。待学年将尽,无论你们相交深浅,只要你展现出了成年人的气度,给予了室友应有的尊重,那就可以安心了。

by kelci lynn lucier


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